- Focus on internal evaluation, not external.
You must be very proud of yourself.
How do you think you are doing?
I'm so proud of you.
- Focus on contributions and appreciation, not judgments.
I appreciate the help you gave me.
Your hard work sure did help the family
What a good job you did!
- Focus on effort and improvement, not winning or competition.
I can see the progress you've made.
You have really been practicing hard.
I'm so proud of you for winning!
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